In every society, institution and religious organisation, differences are inevitable. Human beings do not think alike, share the same philosophy or approach life from exactly the same perspective. Our convictions, experiences and understanding of life naturally shape the way we relate to the world around us.
Within a religious organisation, these differences can become even more pronounced. People may disagree over principles, administrative approaches, interpretations, leadership styles or the direction of certain affairs. Such disagreements, however, should never remove from us the ability to recognise what is good in another person.
There is a great deal of maturity in being able to say: “I may disagree with this person on several issues, but when I see him doing what is right, I will be fair enough to acknowledge it.”
One individual whose conduct provides an instructive example in this regard is Venerable Evangelist Tosho Oshoffa, Shepherd of Celestial Church of Christ International, Ketu, Lagos State. Regardless of whatever differences people may have concerning various matters of church life, one quality that deserves recognition in his public conduct is the respect he accords senior clerics.
He has consistently demonstrated an understanding that leadership is not an invitation to disregard those who came before, nor is occupying a position a licence to place oneself above every other person.
In ecclesiastical gatherings, services and processions, he has shown a willingness to accord senior clergy the honour due to their offices and positions. This may appear to be a simple matter to some people, but it carries a profound lesson about leadership.
It is also a reminder to us as observers, reporters and members of the church that our responsibility should not always be to highlight only what divides us. When we see something positive, we should have the courage to say it. When we see good character, we should acknowledge it. When someone demonstrates humility, regardless of our personal opinions about that person, we should be fair enough to commend the virtue.
